RickE,
I appreciate your questions and they are all valid inquiries. You will want to definitely use the thicker bushings, and as far as maximum load that can be supported and bushing compression is all at the mercy of weight and position. The thickness of the 2.5" washer is .116". For the torque specs, I recommend this site
http://www.raskcycle.com/techtip/webdoc14.html
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RickE Please visit our Heavy Duty Website @
http://www.energysuspensionxd.com. Use this to help gather some information or call 949.361.3935 and ask for Kevin Taeger, he is our Heavy Duty Line Sales Manager and is very knowledgeable in this field.